How to Make Wedding Cupcakes

That title should read… “How to Make Wedding Cupcakes when You’re Not Really a Professional Cupcake Baker!”

Since I’m always bringing treats to people, those people occasionally ask if they can hire me to make treats. Not really wishing to create a business of making and selling food, I typically decline- however, a very sweet, young teacher at my son’s school was getting married last weekend and asked if I would do the cupcakes for her wedding. (In case you’re not in on the latest, apparently cupcakes are a hip alternative to a fancy wedding cake nowadays). We met and discussed the project, and I found myself agreeing to make 96 cupcakes! I owe a huge, HUGE thank you to my Twitter pal and “real-life” cupcake professional Kristin who has a business called Meringue Bake Shop in Southern California.  Kristin took the time to share tips and advice about making cupcakes for clients.

Here are the details:
The bride wanted white and chocolate cupcakes with buttercream frosting. I tested out some recipes and frosting patterns in the weeks prior to the wedding.

The recipes chosen are at the bottom of this post.

The bride also wanted a combination of white, light blue and light yellow frosting. She chose two different frosting patterns and wanted some with pearls and some without.

Here are some of the pictures…

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I used a 1G Tip by Bakery Crafts for this simple swirl. The chocolate cupcake recipe used was excellent. It was really easy to make and it stayed pretty flat on top, making it easier to pipe the frosting.

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I used a 2D Wilton tip for this more funky pattern.

I loved the white cupcake… though I’m a little embarrassed to tell you about the recipe. It was a doctored-up cake mix recipe (gasp!!) I know that’s not very gourmet, and it’s completely atypical of how I usually bake, but I’m telling you that these cupcakes were GOOD!! And again, a really easy recipe to make- the tops stayed nice and flat & easy for frosting.

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My kitchen and dining room were a sea of cupcakes for the better part of a day!

The bride requested that I make a dozen completely sugar-free cupcakes for a few guests who were not able to eat sugar.

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I’m not big on baking with Splenda, but both the cupcake recipe and the frosting recipe I used had Spenda in them instead of sugar. They were okay. I don’t particularly like the flavor that Splenda imparts, but I have to say that these were a good alternative dessert for those who can’t have the sugar.

The bride also asked that I make her a small cake for the top tier of her cupcake display. They wanted to be able to cut into a little wedding cake.

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I made a 6-inch two layer cake. I used the same cake recipe as the cupcakes- same frosting recipe too. The tip used for the edging was the Wilton 2D. The bride placed flowers on top of the cake for additional decor.

Though it was a ton of work, it was a fun project to do. And I actually feel pretty good about how they turned out (having never, ever done fancy cupcakes before!) Now that I’m a “paid cupcake-baking professional,” I’m sure that it won’t be quite as difficult to do next time.

If you’re looking for the right supplies to make these cupcakes, here are my suggestions (these are affiliate links to Amazon):

Here are all of the recipes:
Chocolatey Cupcakes (not dipped in the ganache)
White Wedding Cupcakes
White Wedding Buttercream
White Wedding Cake
Sugar Free Chocolate Cupcakes
Sugar Free Chocolate Frosting
If you can have a little bit of sugar in the frosting, I prefer this chocolate frosting recipe

Disclosure:  There are Amazon affiliate links included within this post.

Lori Lange of Recipe Girl

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  • Maria wrote:

    Can I add a little gelatin to frosting so in summer it keeps its shape and doesn’t go sloppy?

    • Lori Lange wrote:

      I’ve never tried that!

  • Patty wrote:

    I was just wondering do you use regular land o lake butter or unsalted ?

    • Lori Lange wrote:

      I like to use salted butter.

  • LaDonna wrote:

    So you used Splenda for sugar free icing?? Just cup for cup….like 3 cups of Splenda instead of 3 cups of sugar?
    How did it turn out and how did it taste?

  • Linda wrote:

    I’m doing my daughters wedding cupcakes and small wedding cake as well! Going to use your white wedding cake recipe, but also wonder if you have a good lemon and pumpkin recipe for cupcakes too. She wanted these 3 flavors!! Your cakes turned out beautiful!!

    • Lori Lange wrote:

      I don’t have pumpkin or lemon- sorry!

  • Shelby Sims wrote:

    Have you ever tried the white wedding cake recipe with a chocolate cake mix. My family can eat all36 cupcakes in one day that’s how good it is?

  • Katie wrote:

    Did you have to refrigerate to keep the icing presentable?

    • Lori Lange wrote:

      I’d say, “yes”… especially in the summer.

  • Kathy wrote:

    Are cupcakes okay to freeze? Can you provide any tips or advice on how to freeze & thaw cupcakes along with frosting on them?

    • Lori Lange wrote:

      My best advice is to experiment before the big day!